A few afternoons of campus preaching goes a long way to reinforce our culture’s confusion about what God has made in our gender (see previous post). In “Image of God 1 & 2″ (which this continues) I looked at how God defined male and female. To summarize, contrary to all intuitive understanding, God carefully introduces and defines “male and female” as something other than biological, reproductive concepts. If we allow God to define His own terms, we must take “male and female” (at least in the Genesis 1-3 definition) as an expression of a Divine relationship that has always been present within God Himself. Let us make man in our image… In the image of God He created him, male and female He created them. In this Genesis 1 passage God defines “male and female” not as an aspect of this bioligical created life, but as “our image“, as capturing something that is there within God Himself.
The purpose of this post is to begin the question, what does God see – or want to see – when He looks at “male and female” in Man? As we already addressed, the terms “male and female” are defined as terms of relationship. OK. But what is this relationship supposed to look like?
The first thing we can determine, is that the relationship pictured is complementary in nature. This can be deduced from several factors. First, male and female are different. God could have created two identical beings; He was certainly not constrained by biology to create what He did. Sexuality is one part of the greater relational picture; God was not forced to work it into the picture for the sake of reproduction. And, sexual differences related to reproduction are only a small part of the physiological differences between men and women. Hundreds of differences exist from average body size, percentage of body fat, heart rate, red blood cell count, hormonal differences and even how the brain is wired before birth. This vast array of physiological differences are all intended by God to create relationship that is asymmetric. In other words, male and female are supposed to be different, to relate to one another from different places, and so to represent different aspects of what is in God.
Genesis tells us about this complementary intention in another way. From Genesis 1 we understand the absolute equality of the sexes. Since both are made in the image of God, both have an intrinsic value, and both are absolutely and equally necessary for God’s representation on earth. In all my reading and discussions on the issue of equality between the sexes, I have never found someone who can give me a rational basis for gender equality outside of the Biblical basis beginning in Genesis 1. As far as I know, only those who believe in the Bible have a logical, rational worldview basis for this intrinsic equality.
Genesis 2 and 3 go on to define the diversity within the unity. Adam is created first. Adam is given specific instructions related to the garden and is entrusted with the command related to the forbidden fruit. Though both male and female are to have dominion (1:26), Adam names the animals. This unique, separate introduction of Adam must indicate a role for “male” in the image of God that is unique. But perhaps most important in this unique, solitary introduction we find that in accomplishing all these things, and even walking with God Himself, Adam is found to be incomplete. By design, God Himself cannot complete what Adam needs, for Adam is in the image of God. Adam must be an “us” and an “our” (Genesis 1:26). So in the finishing of the Creation the man becomes plural and out of himself comes another – one who is not a separate creation, but is really still him. Yet not him at all, but clearly a separate person. Yet not separate, but bone of his bone, flesh of his flesh. “Female” in the image of God was the only thing in all of creation that was not made out of that which was dead. As Adam looked at Eve for the first time his mind must have been filled with wonder, awe and completeness. This was “woman” for she was out of man.
To understand God’s purposes, we must not miss this. Something before had been fundamentally and profoundly “not good”. Though in face to face fellowship with his Creator, Adam was still alone. Not even God’s presence could complete the relational picture of God’s image that He had begun. But God brings a “helper suitable” from Adam’s side. Asymmetric, complementary, “one flesh” lifelong relationship exists. Man, the image of God, is now on the earth. And suddenly, the fullness of the creation becomes “very good”.
Who could miss the parallel with the first two members of the Trinity? God the Son has been eternally coexistent with the Father. And both are One; there is only one God. Yet somehow in that Oneness, the Father is first. The Nicene Creed attempts to describe it for us – the Son is
eternally begotten of the Father,
God from God, Light from Light,
true God from true God,
begotten, not made,
of one Being with the Father.
The man and the woman, from one being, yet two, united together being one flesh. Eternal God, One God, yet two Persons in Father and Son. And out of the relationship of Father and Son proceeds the Third person…
… the Holy Spirit, the Lord, the giver of life,
who proceeds from the Father and the Son.
And from the loving relationship of the man and the woman proceeds the most amazing of all things – the image of God in their image comes forth. Of them, yet separate.
What then can we know of “male and female” as God has made it? First of all, they are, in Genesis 1, not biological terms related to reproduction, they are relational terms corresponding to realities within God. Biology and sexuality are merely some of the means by which God expresses the relational. Second, the relational realities are complementary, not symmetric. In both the way God created the male and the female (Adam first, Adam instructed, Eve from him, Eve as a helpmate), and in the myriad of created physical differences (physical, emotional, intellectual) between men and women, God is telling us there is something unique in both manhood and womanhood that captures what God is. These two measures of, 1) what God created in male and female (with created differences) and, 2) how God created male and female (would anyone propose that God created the male giraffe or rabbit first in a similar process?) make clear that God has put something very intentional and very special in not just human beings, but in male and female. The image of God does not reside in humans generically. The image of God is in male – and maleness – in relationship with female, and “femaleness”. Or we could say, the image of God is in masculinity and in femininity, and especially in what exists when the two are in covenant relationship with one another.
Having established that “male and female” are relational terms, and that they are complementary in God’s intent, we will next explore how those complementary relational poles exist within God.
But it is important not to miss the application all this has to the college plaza (see previous post). Gender is not just the way we experience sex. Can I say it again? Gender is not just the way we experience sex! Gender is a part of our identity that comes from God. It is not just an incidental part of this physical existence. It is the way we express what God is. God has made me in His image. My gender, male or female, is given to me to make me like Him. It is not what makes me like the animals. As men and women we need to be called to live out something that goes beyond our sexuality and that puts our sexuality in a healthy and proper priority. Gender is a call to identity in masculinity or femininity. When Biblically understood, it is ennobling. It is the framework for our humanity. It is the only truth that allows us to escape the otherwise inevitable degeneration of Romans 1 and put our sexuality in the healthy and beautiful context God intended.
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